Verse: 1 Corinthians 1
1. Mountain of laying down: Please God and make your wife happy
A. Husband shall please God and make his wife happy too（ 1 Corinthians 7:32-34a；Deuteronomy 24:5）
B. Align with God’s will to please God
(1) Husband needs wife’s help （Genesis 2:18）
(2) Husband and wife represent Christ and the Church（Ephesians 5:31-32）
C. Out of solitude to make your wife happy
(1) Lay down yourself（Ephesians 5:25-27）
(2) Care for your wife（Ephesians 5:28-30）
2. Mountain of shouldering: Women can be wrong but your wife is never
A. Adam sinned, God remedied（Genesis 3:11-13, 21）
B. Man sin, Jesus bears（John 1:29；1 John 3:5）
C. Wife makes mistakes, husband shoulders
(1) If I find my wife’s mistakes, I’m mistaken（Proverbs 10:12；1 Peter 4:8）
(2) If I’m not mistaken, I’m to blame for my wife’s mistakes （Romans 5:12）
(3) If it is her mistake, as long as she doesn’t admit it, then it’s not her mistake（1 Corinthians 4:5）
(4) If my wife refuses to admit her mistakes and I insist that she does,I’m gravely mistaken（ Romans 8:1）