Verse: Genesis 1 A. Mountain of Perfecting: Husband has the authority, wife makes decision 1. God creates, authorizes man to rule (Genesis 1:26; Matthew 18:18-19) 2. Jesus is the Lord, answers the prayer of Church (John 15:7; Matthew 8:13, 15:28) 3. Husband is the head, fulfills the wife’s decisions (Proverbs 31:13-27) B. Mountain of Embracing: Embracing wife’s opposition 1. Embrace wife’s differences, changed from not-good to good and better a. The only remedy for an isolated lifestyle (Genesis 2:18) b. The only way to walk into blessing (Genesis 1:27-28) c. A strong and powerful prayer altar (1 Peter 3:7) 2. Embrace wife’s opposition, […]

Verse: Proverbs 14 3rd Mountain of Wisdom: Build up the household wisely (Proverbs 14:1, 31:10-12) 1. Wisdom in making decisions (Proverbs 31:13-19) 2. Having boundaries with people (Proverbs 31:20-29) 3. Fearing God (Proverbs 31:30, 9:10) 4th Mountain of Faith: Believe husband will succeed (Genesis 2:18) 1. Continue to believe: If my husband did not succeed, it is because of my disbelief (Proverbs 4:23；Mark 9:23；Job 2:9, 3:1；Esther 6:12-13) 2. Live out destiny: If my husband truly did not succeed, it is because I failed to help him succeed (Proverbs 21:9,19, 25:24, 27:15) 3. Wait patiently: If I believed and helped my husband, but still he did not succeed, it is […]

Verse: 1 Corinthians 1 1. Mountain of laying down: Please God and make your wife happy A. Husband shall please God and make his wife happy too（ 1 Corinthians 7:32-34a；Deuteronomy 24:5） B. Align with God’s will to please God (1) Husband needs wife’s help （Genesis 2:18） (2) Husband and wife represent Christ and the Church（Ephesians 5:31-32） C. Out of solitude to make your wife happy (1) Lay down yourself（Ephesians 5:25-27） (2) Care for your wife（Ephesians 5:28-30） 2. Mountain of shouldering: Women can be wrong but your wife is never A. Adam sinned, God remedied（Genesis 3:11-13, 21） B. Man sin, Jesus bears（John 1:29；1 John 3:5） C. Wife makes mistakes, husband […]

Verse: Genesis 2:18 一、Mountain of Help – Gentle confrontation, consistent improvement 1. First challenge – true light, the truth, true feelings (1 John 1:5-7) 2. Second challenge – gentleness (1 Peter 3:4) 二、Mountain of Praise – Give thanks always, always praise 1. Thanksgiving and praise are the great boosters (Proverbs 18:21) 2. It is either fresh or salt water (James 3:11-12) 3. Determined to give thanks and praise (Genesis 29:30-35)

Verse: Genesis 2 A. Take the right position focusing on God (Genesis 2:15-18,23) 1. Men take lead. Take on! (Genesis 2:15,17,23) 2. Women let go. Build up! (Genesis 3:16; Proverbs 14:1) B. Men confess, women give thanks 1. Husbands surrender. Elevate! (Ephesians 5:25-26) 2. Wives give thanks. Advance! (Psalms 50:23,100:4) C. Climb the shkkinah ladder in unity (Psalms 100:4; Matthew 23:12)

A. The couple’s boxing ring is for genuine and sincere communication of feelings B. The couple’s boxing ring is for bearing responsibilities and restoring relationships（Genesis 3:7；Luke 22:39-44） C. The 8 rules for the couple’s boxing ring: 1. Before entering the ring, robes off and play by the rules （Genesis 1:26-27; Philippians 2:5-8） 2. Do not overturn, tear down or back down from the ring（James 1:20; 1 John 4:18） 3. Be open and honest to share your feelings and innermost thoughts（Genesis 2:25; Ephesians 5:28-30） 4. Do not make personal attacks or dig up past quarrels、Be gracious（Matthew 6:12） 5. Do not involve others or […]