經文：哥林多前書 1
一、放下之山：討神喜悅，叫妻子快樂
Mountain of laying down: Please God and make your wife happy
A.丈夫要討神喜悅，也要叫妻子快樂（哥林多前書 1 Corinthians 7:32-34a；申命記 Deuteronomy 24:5）
Husband shall please God and make his wife happy too
B.對準神心意，好討神喜悅
Align with God’s will to please God
1.丈夫需要妻子的幫助 （創世記 Genesis 2:18）
Husband needs wife’s help
2.夫妻表彰基督與教會 （以弗所書 Ephesians 5:31-32）
Husband and wife represent Christ and the Church
C.脫離獨居，叫妻子快樂
Out of solitude to make your wife happy
1. 放下自己（以弗所書 Ephesians 5:25-27）
Lay down yourself
2. 顧惜妻子 （以弗所書 Ephesians 5:28-30）
Care for your wife
二.承擔之山：女人會錯，妻子永遠不會錯
Mountain of shouldering: Women can be wrong but your wife is never
A.亞當犯罪，上帝善後 （創世記 Genesis 3:11-13, 21）
Adam sinned, God remedied
B.世人犯罪，耶穌背負 （約翰福音 John 1:29；約翰一書 1 John 3:5）
Man sin, Jesus bears
C.妻子做錯，丈夫承擔
Wife makes mistakes, husband shoulders
1. 如果發現妻子有錯，一定是我看錯 （箴言 Proverbs 10:12；彼得前書 1 Peter 4:8）
If I find my wife’s mistakes, I’m mistaken
2. 如果我沒看錯，那一定是我的錯，才害妻子犯錯 （羅馬書 Romans 5:12）
If I’m not mistaken, I’m to blame for my wife’s mistakes
3. 如果是她自己的錯，只要她不認錯，她就沒有錯 （哥林多前書 1 Corinthians 4:5）
If it is her mistake, as long as she doesn’t admit it, then it’s not her mistake
4. 如果妻子不認錯，我還堅持她有錯，我就大錯特錯 （羅馬書 Romans 8:1）
If my wife refuses to admit her mistakes and I insist that she does,I’m gravely mistaken